When talking to a child, a mother or father may utter a dangerous phrase.
We are talking about words that cause psychological trauma to children and devalue them.
Moreover, parents do not even realize how seriously they are harming their son or daughter.
So, what shouldn’t you cook for a boy or a girl?
"Okay, just don't bother us."
Your child started throwing a tantrum in a store, demanding that you buy him a toy? In such a situation, do not give in to him!
Otherwise, it will turn out that the baby "lured" this or that thing. After that, the child will start using tears as a means to achieve goals. It will be very difficult to re-educate the child.
Instead of saying, "Okay, we'll buy you that toy, just stop crying," it's better to say, "We won't even discuss this until you calm down."
"You're talking nonsense!"
Sometimes children surprise their parents with absurd statements. Moms and dads should take such words calmly, because the child is still small and naive.
Don't criticize your child for not knowing or not understanding something. Don't laugh at him, otherwise you will devalue your child and make him insecure.
It would be better to explain to your son or daughter how things really are.
"I'll leave you in kindergarten"
Don't scare the child. And don't tell him that you won't come back for him or that you'll give him to someone.
Any child is afraid of being abandoned. And an unsuccessful parental phrase can cause serious psychological trauma to the child, the consequences of which will make themselves known even in adulthood.
