A child is unlikely to succeed in life if his mother and father make serious mistakes in upbringing.
But sometimes even those parents who only want the best for their child act incorrectly.
Not all actions that seem right have a positive effect on the child.
There are gross mistakes due to which a child is unlikely to grow up to be a happy person.
Reluctance to talk about one's own mistakes
It would seem that sharing such information with your child is not worth it. Because the child may follow a bad example from his parents.
However, you still need to talk about your mistakes. So that the child does not repeat them. The main thing is to describe the serious consequences of the mistakes made.
Excessive praise
A child needs to be praised. But not too often. And not for every little thing.
Parents' unwillingness to observe moderation can lead to the child simply losing motivation and stopping striving to achieve goals. After all, he will be praised anyway.
Constant criticism
Avoiding excessive praise should not lead to the other extreme - constant criticism.
You shouldn't scold a boy or a girl for any trifle. If you regularly criticize a child, he or she will come to the wrong conclusion about the futility of efforts.
Unwillingness to give the child the opportunity to act
Only the person who acts independently, without relying on constant help from others, can achieve success.
Give your child the opportunity to solve a problem on his own. In this case, the child will acquire important skills.
Reluctance to say "No" to a child
Some parents are afraid to refuse their child. They buy the child everything he asked for. They do not forbid him to misbehave. And this is very bad.
Sometimes you still need to say "No". Otherwise, the baby will become capricious, disobedient and overly demanding. And such qualities do not contribute to purposefulness and hard work.
