Teachers and child psychologists often complain that people are not forced to undergo testing before pregnancy.
After all, a parent takes responsibility for a new life, but some are not even prepared to raise a child.
What mistakes do parents make? And how can you make sure your child doesn't have to see a therapist?
We propose to consider the most common mistakes of modern parents.
Here are the five mistakes:
- Raising independence. It is necessary to find a balance in which the child will be independent, but remember that he can rely on his parents.
- Overprotection. In this case, the child becomes spoiled or unprepared for real life.
- Excessive feelings towards parents. The task of mom and dad is to establish clear boundaries. Also, you should not scare off suitors from your daughter or show aggression towards your daughter-in-law.
- Negative programs. In early childhood, a child may become a victim of prejudice based on nationality or age. It is also important to avoid negative attitudes such as "all men cheat."
- Inflated expectations of life. Teach your child to adequately assess his strengths and abilities.
