Some mothers and fathers often say phrases that have a negative impact on their children.
Usually such words come from the lips of not the best parents.
But sometimes good mothers and fathers can make mistakes.
Therefore, all parents should study the list of dangerous phrases.
"Do it quickly!"
A commanding tone has a bad effect on any child. Especially if the child does not deserve such treatment by his behavior.
You need to communicate calmly with your son and daughter. You shouldn't force them to do anything, unless, of course, the situation is exceptional.
"How could you get such a low grade?!"
There should be no such accusations when communicating with a child.
It is better to calmly find out why the student has started to study worse. Perhaps there is an objective reason.
"You'll understand when you grow up"
This phrase shows that the parents do not take their own child very seriously and respectfully.
"You are a difficult child, but Vasya..."
It is still permissible to draw the child's attention to his difficult character.
But you shouldn’t compare your child with other children: this is fraught with complexes and self-doubt for him.
"We have done a lot for you, and you..."
It is difficult for a small child to understand the enormous contribution of parents to his upbringing. In addition, mothers and fathers must understand that they voluntarily took on this responsibility.
And if parents constantly remind the child of their efforts and financial losses for his sake, then this causes the boy or girl to feel guilty (and sometimes even very irritated).
