It is useful to be selfish sometimes, but if this becomes the norm and a person begins to neglect the feelings of others, behaves disrespectfully and inattentively, then it is worth thinking about.
We will tell you about several signs of selfishness that indicate that something needs to change in the relationship.
The first sign
If a person complains all the time and wants others to listen to his problems, but is not ready to do the same, then this is a “red flag”.
Still, close relationships consist of mutual help and support.
Expressing boredom or constantly looking at your phone when your partner or friend starts talking about problems, acting like he or she is a whiner, is a bad sign.
Such a relationship is unlikely to last long.
The second sign
The selfish solution is to be angry, but to boycott and ignore your chosen one instead of seeking a compromise.
The third sign
In a healthy relationship, each other's opinions and interests are respected.
If this balance is not there, and all attention is only given to the needs of one person, then this is a sign to reconsider your behavior.
Previously, we talked about how to revive a fading friendship.
