No one said that relationships were easy. However, that doesn't mean that dating or living with your partner should be a never-ending nightmare.
If your relationship has turned into hell, you should think about breaking up. The following signs indicate an imminent breakup.
Swearing in public
In front of strangers, you can talk about the good qualities that your partner has. But it is better to discuss negative aspects in private. All that criticism in public can cause is a negative reaction or resentment.
Moreover, if you criticize your partner in public or make unpleasant jokes about him, this indicates that dissatisfaction is growing inside you, which has already begun to spill out.
Public humiliation
If your partner has humiliated you once in front of other people, it will most likely happen again. Excuses such as alcohol or bad mood are not accepted.
Publicly humiliating your partner is a sign of self-hatred, and no matter how much you love this person, the situation will not change without his willingness to work on his self-esteem. And this is difficult to understand and accept.
Obsession
If your partner suffers from an obsession, you will always be on his list of values below alcohol, gambling, work, etc. Moreover, the addiction of a person close to you can destroy your life too.
Painful attachment to an ex-partner
If your partner continues to be in close contact with a former lover or spouse, it will negatively impact the relationship.
Exes should, of course, be respected, especially if there are children together, but priority should be given to the current relationship. Otherwise, the current other half will feel unnecessary and secondary, which can lead to a breakup.
Physical violence
There is no excuse for physical violence, and promises are no consolation. Such relationships must end immediately.
