A funny and strange paradox: men want and yearn for a woman with a beautiful appearance, a docile character, a considerable store of knowledge and skills, a large salary, high social status, who knows how to do everything around the house, and so on.
But when they unexpectedly meet such a smart and beautiful woman, they try to admire her only from afar. They don't really want to connect their lives with her.
Why are men so afraid of beautiful women? Let's look at this in more detail.
Doubts about intellectual abilities
In the modern world, the stereotype has firmly taken hold: “Beautiful means stupid.”
To be fair, there are women in the world who devote all their time, energy and resources to improving their appearance.
They simply have nothing left for a career, self-education and spiritual growth. And thanks to such ladies, such a stereotype was formed.
That's why men like to spend time in the company of beautiful ladies, but it's unlikely that they will connect their lives with them. After all, there are doubts that the companion can only talk about cosmetic procedures, clothes, jewelry and TV series.
Financial issues
The next important issue that makes men look for ladies with an ordinary appearance is money.
After all, in family life, most often, the budget is shared. Consequently, a man will have to provide his wife not only with a roof over her head, food and other benefits of civilization, but also pay for monthly shopping trips, spa salons, hairdressers, and so on.
And according to the deep convictions of the representatives of the stronger sex, a beautiful woman will not take what is cheaper. She will definitely choose the most expensive. And she will not care that her beloved does not have money for it.
Such thoughts horrify men. And that is why they prefer beautiful and well-groomed mistresses, to whom they can give expensive gifts from time to time, but not provide for all their “fashionable” whims.
Too much competition
A beautiful woman will not sit quietly in a corner at an event. She will always be the center of attention. And because of this, there will always be different representatives of the stronger sex around her.
Even those who seem to have their own lovers. Therefore, the beauty's companion will have to undergo a kind of casting almost every day among other possible candidates for this role.
These thoughts cause fear in a man. Therefore, he will prefer to simply communicate and have a good time with a beauty (after all, he needs to brag to his friends!), but he will not ask her to marry him.
Why does he need a constant headache in the form of fear that a more promising man will appear on the horizon, and because of this his beloved wife will file for divorce?
Doubts about economic abilities
This opinion smoothly "comes out" of the stereotype about intellectual abilities. After all, if a woman spends all her time in beauty salons or fashion stores, then she simply does not have the time and energy to cook, clean the house and wash clothes for her dear man. Men are partly right in this thinking.
After all, a smart and beautiful woman would never clean her house with an expensive manicure and designer clothes.
It is much easier for her to allocate money from her salary to hire employees of the relevant service.
But if this is not possible, then she will either insist on buying a certain piece of equipment to make her life much easier, or she will insist on dividing the work between herself and her spouse.
Based on this, a man would rather dream of a beautiful wife than actually marry her. After all, he doesn't really want to deal with cleaning/laundry issues.
