The idea that women choose a man according to their heart and soul is a myth. Their choice is influenced by a huge number of factors.
Let's take a closer look at the parameters by which ladies choose their life partners.
Appearance
Yes, women also pay attention to appearance! This is influenced by many reasons: public opinion, the desire to show off and be better than friends or relatives, media propaganda.
A modern woman would prefer (even if erroneously) to see a handsome and well-groomed man next to her.
She does not want to hear ridicule, caustic remarks and comparisons that are not in her favor from her friends and family.
Therefore, representatives of the stronger half of humanity should pay attention to their own appearance before a date.
This includes: going to the gym, choosing quality, appropriate clothing, and taking care of yourself.
Financial situation
Often you can hear men accuse women of being materialistic. Or that a fat wallet is more important to women than the man himself.
But not quite so. The woman approaches this side of the issue carefully for two reasons.
Firstly: she needs to have a "guarantor" of a stable and secure future (at least for a couple of years). A couple of months of financial stability will not satisfy her.
Secondly: to provide for the future of your children. Every woman subconsciously wants her children to be financially secure, to have a chance to get ahead in life and work in a reputable company.
Today, a man’s material wealth is the equivalent and proof of his strength.
Responsibility
A valuable quality that attracts women. After all, such a man will not just make promises, but will try to fulfill them.
Another small feature: a responsible gentleman will not shift his own mistakes onto his chosen one.
He will look for a chance to fix them on his own. The most he can do is ask for help (if it's too hard) or ask for advice. And that already commands respect.
Strength
One of the main requirements for women when choosing a partner is physical and spiritual strength.
This is due to the fact that a woman needs protection. And not only from hooligans who can suddenly attack on the street.
But also in conversation with others, in the fight against one's own shortcomings. Therefore, one should not assume that a woman will not pay attention to the candidate's physical fitness.
Ability and desire to constantly develop
Not every woman is eager to have a representative of the “couch potato” community as her other half.
Ladies are able to appreciate their chosen one’s desire to learn and develop.
This concerns not only the need to achieve the goals set by the man, but also so that the gentleman remains interesting to his other half.
If a man is well versed in some area, then he will be able to talk about it with great inspiration.
This delights and involuntarily charges you with the same delight as the interlocutor. There is a desire not only to listen, but also to understand this topic in detail.
Calmness
Women are emotional creatures. Because of this, they highly value calmness (and prudence) in their chosen ones.
Thanks to this quality, a man can listen to his woman, as well as understand what worries her, and offer options for further action.
Or use logic to explain why it is worth doing something in a specific way.
If the chosen one is highly emotional (like his other half), then there will be no peace in life.
The "volcano of passions" will flare up every time even the slightest reason for a quarrel arises.
Earlier we told you how you can please your loved one.
