Not all men are distinguished by decency and high moral qualities: some of them see nothing wrong with using women.
Some people just spend time with a lady because they haven't found anyone else.
But there are also those who gain trust in order to take possession of certain material assets.
Therefore, you should always think about yourself and your comfort first, so as not to encounter such men.
What signs will help to achieve this?
If we are talking about a "backup option"
Some men appear in a woman's life only to spend time with her in the absence of other options. It is definitely impossible to remain in such a position, experts say.
It's easy to calculate them.
In this case, the man makes rare appointments only in the evenings. He does not warn in advance: the man can call literally a couple of hours before such a "date".
In this type of relationship there are no gifts, no signs of attention, no help. You don't go to restaurants, you don't organize cultural programs.
A man can disappear for a certain period of time, not write or even pick up the phone.
It is not worth wasting time on such a fan: he does not appreciate you anyway. Instead, it is worth finding a decent fan for whom you will become the only and beloved.
If we are talking about material gain
This type of man is the most dangerous, because he can not only break your heart, but also worsen your financial situation. Some men try to create the illusion of a rich life at an early stage, and then ask for a loan. As a rule, it cannot even occur to women that a wealthy (as it seemed to her) man may not repay the loan.
Other men just try to get closer as quickly as possible. They offer to move in with you, do not help with paying utilities, and practically do not participate financially in creating a joint budget.
It's definitely not worth providing for such a man.
Earlier we talked about why you shouldn’t waste time on long correspondence with a man .
