There's no point in hiding it - most of us are too fixated on our appearance: we strive to lose weight, get a tan, meet standards, choose clothes, and all this in order to hide our flaws.
Unfortunately, attempts to attract a potential life partner and build a happy relationship in this way are unlikely to end in success.
There are other qualities that are much more attractive to partners, and one of them is the ability to listen.
Listening skills
Few people know how to listen and love to listen. Those who have had to communicate with such a person understand what we are talking about now.
Such an interlocutor patiently waits for his turn to speak, and at the same time does not go over similar cases in his head during your story, but is completely immersed in what you are telling him now.
You can keep up a conversation without even listening. Nod, say "uh-huh" and don't look at your phone. But listening is an art, and it's always appreciated. You want to communicate with such people.
How to develop listening skills
To learn to listen, try to concentrate on the words of the interlocutor and not get distracted.
Be interested in what he says. If this doesn't work, ask yourself whether it's worth it to maintain communication.
Earlier we listed 5 simple things that will make family life happier.
