It happens that two men appear in a woman’s life at once, who are in the mood for a romantic relationship.
If you don't want to end up in a love triangle, you'll have to make some tough choices.
If the heart refuses to take part in the “vote”, you should listen to the voice of reason – try to find answers to the following questions.
1. What does each partner want from the relationship?
To make the right choice, you need to understand what each guy expects from a relationship and compare their expectations with your desires and needs. One may not be ready for a serious relationship, while the other wants to start a family and have children, and you want the same - the choice becomes obvious.
2. Are there any red flags?
Analyze the actions and words of each suitor: are there any red flags, that is, signs indicating possible problems in the relationship? You should be wary if a potential partner, for example, constantly looks for excuses for his mistakes or becomes a victim of his own lies, and also often resorts to stereotypes to evaluate others.
3. Who do you have more in common with?
It is a myth that opposites attract. Conflicts of interest often cause problems in relationships, especially when misunderstandings arise on religious or political grounds, etc.
4. Which man accepts you as you are?
A person who has genuine feelings for you and wants to be with you will not insist that you change.
Perhaps one of the “candidates” under consideration has indicated that you need to work on your appearance, behavior, or character. If such comments sounded manipulative, had a negative connotation, or were persistent, you should think twice before considering such a person as a partner – you are unlikely to want to be around a toxic person.
Previously, we talked about how to behave in a long-distance relationship .
