Men and women often perceive questions differently. For women, they can be a way to express concern and interest, while for men, they can be a sign of intrusiveness.
There are a number of issues that are important to women, but can drive men crazy and even lead to a breakup.
Here are 10 questions you shouldn't ask men, even if they have nerves of steel.
What are you thinking about now?
Many arguments between men and women arise from one simple question. Men often cannot answer this question because they are immersed in their thoughts or actions.
For example, if a man is watching TV, he may be thinking about what is happening on the screen. If he is washing dishes, he may be thinking about how to wash away a stubborn stain. Men often think about different things, and they are not always able or willing to share their thoughts with a woman. Therefore, it is better for women not to ask this question if they do not want to ruin their relationship with a man.
Do you love me?
It would seem an innocent question, but it can cause irritation or even anger in a man. Men, for the most part, prefer to express feelings with actions, not meaningless words. Therefore, if you want to hear a declaration of love, it is better to create the right atmosphere for this.
How do I look?
This question can put a man in an awkward position. Men are often unsure of how to answer this question correctly. If a man says that you look good, he may seem insincere to you.
If he says you look bad, he may offend you. So if you want to hear a compliment, it is better to tell a man what you like about his appearance.
Where are you?
Men often don't want to answer this question because they don't want the woman to think they don't trust her, but they also start to feel controlled. Women need to understand that they can't control what their men do.
Therefore, if you want to know where your man is, it is better to ask him about it directly, but without excessive control, otherwise she risks turning from a loved one into a warden in the eyes of the man.
Who is she?
Female jealousy is a normal feeling, but it can become destructive if it is uncontrolled. Constantly asking this question not only shows your insecurity, but also puts him on the spot. Men often cannot control their gaze, and this does not mean that they want to cheat on you.
If I wasn't there, would you have found someone else?
This is a trap question. No matter what your man says, you are unlikely to be satisfied. If he says yes, you will feel unloved and insecure. If he says no, you will doubt his honesty.
If you want to know how much your partner appreciates and loves you, it’s best to just talk to them about it. Tell them how you feel and ask them to tell you how they feel. This way, you can understand each other better and build a stronger relationship.
What should I wear?
It's a matter of personal taste. Men can give you general advice, but the final decision should be yours. Men don't always understand women's fashion, and their advice may not be entirely accurate.
Think about the image you want to create. If you want to look good, it is better to listen to your inner voice. Choose clothes that match your style and mood, and in which you feel comfortable.
What was your ex like?
Not the best way to find out about your partner's past. If a man respects himself and his choices, he will not speak badly of his exes. And if a man speaks only good things about his exes, it can cause you unpleasant emotions. Therefore, it is better not to ask this question, but to focus on the present and future of your relationship.
Don't you notice anything?
Men do not always notice changes in women's appearance. Even if a woman changes her image dramatically, a man may not notice it. This is due to the fact that men are not as attentive to details as women.
Also, men are often afraid of offending women, so they may not tell them the truth if they are not happy with the changes in their appearance. So if you want to get a compliment from your man, it is better not to ask him directly if he has noticed any changes in your appearance.
Do you want to marry me?
He may not be ready to answer this question, and his answer may not match your expectations. The best thing to do is just talk to your partner about your feelings and plans for the future. Tell him that you want to get married and ask how he feels about it.
If your partner loves you and wants to get married, he or she will do so in due time. For now, just enjoy the relationship and let it develop naturally.
Earlier we wrote about why some people are ready to get divorced over trifles.
