Back in the 19th century, the French writer Alphonse Karr said: “Love is born from nothing and dies from everything.”
Psychologist Katerina Buldaeva told how to understand that a woman has fallen out of love.
This statement is true even in our time. Unfortunately, love between two partners is not always eternal. It happens that one of the partners loses interest in their beloved.
It is especially difficult to understand the true feelings of the fair sex, given their mystery and emotionality. But how can one understand in practice that a woman has fallen out of love with her man?
In the psychology of relationships, as a rule, the most important sign of a lack of love is indifference to a partner. A woman avoids sexual intimacy, does not even want a man to touch her.
If a woman no longer gets emotional, doesn’t create scandals, doesn’t try to prove she’s right, doesn’t force a man to do something, then there’s no more love.
For any woman, love is a fountain of emotions and feelings. As soon as she stops feeling anything towards her partner, warmth turns to coldness, and love leaves her heart.
She no longer asks how things went at work, whether he got to his destination safely, whether he took his vitamins, whether his shirt is clean...
When a woman no longer loves, she distances herself from her partner, even if they have to live together for some time.
She stops mentioning him in conversations with her friends, warning them about her movements, trips, affairs, and counting on him in some matters.
She is no longer happy or comfortable with him, she spends time anywhere but with him, for her he is now a stranger!
The woman begins to look at other men, compliment them in front of her partner, and dress brightly and sexy.
Naturally, these were the most obvious factors by which one can understand that a woman's love has gone. But as a psychologist with many years of experience, I always suggest preventive work.
After all, it is easier to prevent a crisis in a relationship at an early stage than to go to couples psychotherapy later.
Additionally, there are some everyday tips that you can follow to prevent relationship breakdown.
In any quarrels and conflicts, there is no need to involve third parties, even if it is mom and dad. A man and a woman can make peace in the future, but the parents will remember the offense and suffering of their child.
It is important not to cheat or lie to your loved ones.
A love relationship is like a fire, the flame of which must be constantly maintained so that it does not go out. If a man and a woman do not make efforts, the fire will go out.
Relationships are a teamwork of two partners, and their relationship depends on their well-coordinated work.
