What is she like - a woman that no man would pass by?
Psychologist Lyudmila Vildanova told what type of women attracts men.
Most likely, it’s not just external data, but something even more subtle and deep.
The ability to captivate a man is a special gift. Some people have it from birth, while others have to learn it. And yes, it is a skill that can be developed, like any other.
So why do some women attract men, while others, despite their beauty, intelligence, and education, remain unnoticed?
It is often believed that men are attracted to silly girls. They are easier to communicate with.
But this simplicity, where there is no depth, and only talk about who dresses how and where, who goes to which beautician and which of her friends flew to Bali for a vacation, quickly gets boring.
It is easy to persuade such girls, it is not difficult to convince them of something, but admiring them or offering a serious relationship is not a long-term story.
There is such a category - daring girls.
They often understand very well when they go too far and walk on the edge. They feel it with some inner instinct, but they cannot deny themselves the pleasure of continuing.
Men are turned on, excited, and their hunter instinct awakens. This type of person will not admire you and look at you in the mouth - she will rather pretend that she is not at all interested in you.
Smart women are also attractive. They are very cunning, they know where to push to make it hurt more, where to blow to make it easier, and what to say, and most importantly, HOW to say it so that they want to make love to you right here and now.
Again, part of their plan is that they want to, but can't. Because the brightness of a relationship is not only sex. It is always a little bit of a balance over the abyss.
They take you on a dare, using intricate actions, conduct sabotage work to reduce your patience. To the question: Do you still love me? - having received the answer: Not yet. The best part of the game, which causes a continuation.
And if a woman also has enormous inner strength and attractive energy that allows her to charm people without resorting to love magic rituals, she has no chance of remaining unnoticed.
And the point here, in my opinion, is precisely the force of attraction.
Energy rules the world, attracts and holds. A person with such power inside is like a power plant: like a small sun that illuminates and gives warmth to the surrounding space.
You want to be with such a woman all the time, you can’t get enough of her, you want to be soaked in what she has within herself.
What does all this depend on?
First of all, it is an interest in YOURSELF and an interest in life. Connection with YOURSELF and understanding of your desires and needs.
Knowing YOURSELF, being in touch with yourself and being full of yourself. Uniqueness and inimitability. Faith in yourself and inner stability.
And every man is looking for his own special features, his own charm and uniqueness in a woman, which he will not exchange for anything else.
