A man, as a rule, does not always speak about his feelings directly and openly, but you can guess about his special attitude by many signs.
Anna Zhustal, psychologist and author of the self-development book “Inevitable Happiness,” told how to understand that a man has feelings.
To understand what lies behind his words and actions, I recommend taking off your rose-colored glasses for a while and assessing the situation with a critical eye.
This way, you will avoid unnecessary speculation and see an objective picture. The following facts may speak in favor of the fact that a man has feelings for you.
A man is interested in your life. He asks you many questions about your life, about the past, about your plans for the future. He listens with pleasure when you talk about your affairs and share your successes.
A man strives to spend time with you. He is almost always free for you, whether it is a weekday evening or a weekend.
And in order to spend more time with you, he organizes your leisure time himself and tries to make it as interesting as possible. And, on the contrary, you should be wary if he constantly has urgent matters to attend to, and on weekends “his parents suddenly came to visit him,” “his throat hurt,” or “he was put on duty at work.”
A man shows concern. This is shown both in small things - throwing on his jacket on a cool evening, and in more serious cases.
For example, if you are sick or have experienced a loss, then a man who has feelings for you will definitely support and comfort you.
A man expresses his feelings. Yes, not everyone can speak about their feelings in words, but an attentive woman will understand everything from long and tender glances at herself, from intonation that reveals a reverent attitude, and gestures that indicate a desire to protect and care.
The man keeps all the promises he makes. If he says he'll call back at seven o'clock in the evening, that's exactly when the call will come.
If he promised you a joint vacation by the sea, he will do everything to make it happen. And if a man forgets even small promises, then the reason is unlikely to be his bad memory. Most likely, he is indifferent to you.
The man does not hide his intentions. When discussing global life plans, he makes it clear that you must be present in his future.
If he prefers to avoid this topic, then this is a reason to think about whether he really has deep feelings for you.
