Psychologist Anna Zhustal told how to make a man think about himself

05.05.2023 15:56

It is impossible to force a man to think about you under duress; any imposition, explicit or implicit, a man will immediately feel, and this will certainly push him away.

Anna Zhustal, psychologist and author of the self-development book “Inevitable Happiness,” told how to make a man think about himself.

If a man likes you, he will think about you all the time anyway. But there are methods that can help keep his attention.

Immediately after meeting a man, if you notice that he has shown interest in you, take a break from communication for about a week.

Don't rush to answer his calls and messages or answer in monosyllables. This will warm up his interest, he will want you to pay attention to him and will think about how to do it.

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On the first date, try not to reveal yourself completely. Be sincere, enjoy discussing common topics, express your views, but do not rush to talk about yourself and your feelings.

Leave it to the man to think about. He will probably want to decipher you and will think about you more than he planned.

Even after starting a relationship, do not get hung up on a man. To always be interesting to other people, you must be interesting to yourself first of all. Be passionate about your life, improve your knowledge and skills, find hobbies and give yourself to them with all your heart.

If your interests coincide with a man's, this will significantly strengthen the connection. But you shouldn't force yourself to do something you don't like just to "tie" a man to you. The falsehood will be revealed very quickly.

Men are drawn to a woman who is on a high vibration. Someone who feels happy, confident and full of energy.

This makes a man think about her and want to spend time around her to get some of that positive energy.

And, conversely, men (and all people) are repelled by those who constantly complain, feel bad and experience negative emotions.

To radiate energy at high frequencies, you need to work with your own emotions. Sports, proper nutrition, yoga, and meditation help you to be in balance and harmony with yourself.

Valeria Kisternaya Author: Valeria Kisternaya Internet resource editor