Family problems: scandals, intrigues, investigations.
Ekaterina Tur, an expert of the online publication "Belnovosti", a psychosomatologist, told what you need to know about family problems.
Causes of family conflicts:
Opposing views on the model of interaction in the family.
Lack of ability to voice your complaints in a timely manner (keeping problems quiet for a long time, suppressing your emotions can result in a major scandal over the slightest trifle).
Disrespectful attitude towards each other (during the period of adjustment, the level of respect decreases, which can ultimately lead to rudeness, insults and quarrels).
Differences in life values (one likes to travel, the other likes to stay at home).
Mistrust, jealousy. Yes, jealousy is justified when a partner deliberately makes you jealous, weaves intrigues because he is bored. But in most cases, the main reasons why a person can be jealous of his partner are low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence and the desire to control.
This is jealousy without reason, unhealthy jealousy, which can lead to quarrels, surveillance, investigation in social networks (who got a like), to begging and receiving a login and password to read chats, to checking a phone without the owner's knowledge, to domestic violence up to murder. With the problem of severe jealousy, you need to contact a specialist.
Everyday problems (housing, finances, responsibilities, the process of raising children, alcoholism, drug addiction).
Cheating. The phenomenon is quite subjective: for some it is flirting with another person, for others it is a kiss, for others it is sex on the side. What can cause cheating: different sexual constitution, faded feelings, self-affirmation, unwillingness to solve family problems.
What to do.
Visit a family psychologist if you want to save the relationship. If you understand that there will be no more comfort in your life together, break up.
