Children often adopt the habits of their parents and sometimes suffer deep psychological trauma as a result of their behavior.
Educational psychologist Nikita Borisov explained what parents absolutely must not do in the presence of their children.
The expert's advice is provided by the publication "Gazeta.Ru" .
What parents shouldn't do in front of their children
Firstly, parents should not undress in front of their child. The exception is a swimsuit on the beach.
The same applies to the relationship between parents. In front of the child, you can kiss each other on the cheek or hug, everything else should be hidden from the child's eyes.
We are talking about overt flirting, dirty jokes, hot hugs, etc., the specialist clarified.
Secondly, you cannot abuse alcoholic beverages in the presence of a child.
You can drink a glass of champagne at a family celebration, but nothing more.
Otherwise, there is a high probability that the child’s psyche will develop the model “holiday = drink,” Borisov explained.
Thirdly, it is strictly forbidden to demonstrate hostility and aggression in front of a child.
Children react to this very sharply; the child may become withdrawn.
You also shouldn’t involve your child in your problems or criticize your relatives in his presence.
