Many mothers and fathers know that yelling at children is not allowed.
Yes, at first, raising your voice helps to calm the child and make him more obedient.
But soon the baby gets used to the parents’ screams and learns to ignore them.
Thus, the educational technique quickly loses its effectiveness.
There are many children who take the cries of their mother and father to heart: such children face stress, become fearful, withdrawn and unsure of themselves.
Unfortunately, even knowing about the bad consequences of yelling at a child, parents sometimes lose their temper, and then blame themselves and worry about their son or daughter.
How can you avoid yelling at your baby even at the peak of anger? There is one effective technique.
A psychological trick to avoid screaming
Do you feel like you're "boiling" over your child's bad behavior and are about to start screaming?
Just imagine that there are strangers next to you.
The presence of strangers often forces us to behave more restrainedly, so as not to embarrass ourselves or get into an awkward situation.
This is the feature that you need to take advantage of. Try to act as if there are strangers nearby, ready to criticize you for losing your temper with your child and turn on your smartphone camera to record your “crime.”
By setting yourself up in the manner described above, you will certainly “cool down” and find a way to calm the baby without screaming.
Previously, 3 signs were named that parents have spoiled their child.
