It is bad if a baby does not receive enough parental love.
But it’s not better if mom and dad spoil their child too much.
It is very dangerous to spoil your child, because a person who is used to having all his whims fulfilled will have a very difficult time in adulthood.
The child will grow up dependent and unable to communicate normally with people.
If you realize that you have spoiled your son or daughter, then take immediate action.
There are several dangerous signs that should never be ignored.
3 Signs of a Spoiled Child
A capricious, pampered and obstinate baby behaves as follows:
- often says “I want!”, ignoring all objective circumstances;
- loves to cry and scream when his whims are not fulfilled;
- does not know how to express gratitude and be generous.
What should parents do if they have spoiled their child?
In such a situation, mom and dad should forget about such a strategy as fulfilling all the whims of the baby.
You need to learn to refuse a child in cases when his demands are excessive.
It is also important for parents to be able to ignore their child’s tantrums.
It is important to establish certain rules for your child that include rewards for good behavior and punishments for bad behavior.
At the same time, parents should not be too strict: harsh punishments are of no use.
Earlier we explained why you shouldn't throw away your child's toys.