Many children are bad at "masking" lies.
And by some direct and indirect signs, mom and dad can determine that their child is lying.
This skill is very important for parents: it is desirable that they immediately determine that their son or daughter is hiding something important.
So, what are the signs that indicate (or could indicate) that a child is lying?
Coarseness
Children who lie often have a defensive reaction.
Feeling vulnerable, they begin to be rude to their parents.
Oaths
Other kids try to "convince" mom and dad of their innocence.
"I didn't do it! I swear!", "It wasn't me! Honestly!", "I'm not lying!"
Have you heard any of these phrases? Think about whether the child is sincere.
Changed voice
Children who cannot lie become very anxious, causing their voice to tremble.
Fussiness
Anxiety is also reflected in the behavior of the lying child: he becomes fearful and begins to move hastily.
Strange reaction to uncomfortable questions
You asked an important clarifying question, and the child asks again (even though he clearly heard everything), tries to change the subject, or simply remains silent? It is possible that he is afraid of being caught in a lie.
Earlier we named 5 parental phrases that should not be said: they can scar a child for life.
