How to make a child behave well without offending or scaring him: a saving phrase

14.11.2023 00:30

Children do not always exhibit ideal behavior.

Sometimes boys and girls make noise, act up, throw tantrums, and refuse to obey.

In such situations, it is not easy for parents. Especially if the child behaves badly in public.

How to calm a child? It would seem that there are only two options: start scolding the child or promise to punish him.

However, these are not the best methods. It is desirable that the result be achieved without threats and psychological pressure.

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Fortunately, there is one saving phrase: if parents say it, the baby will immediately start to behave better.

What phrase are we talking about?

You need to tell your child the following: “Let’s reconsider your behavior!”

This phrase is good for several reasons. First, the child immediately understands that he is doing something wrong. The child comes to the conclusion that the situation needs to be corrected.

Secondly, the child realizes the mistake without taking it personally. After all, no one scolds or shames the child.

Thirdly, parents demonstrate their willingness to help their son or daughter by offering to work together.

Kurchev Anton Author: Kurchev Anton Deputy Editor-in-Chief