Some parents are convinced that in order for a child to be happy, they need to praise him as often as possible and call him “the best.”
But the problem is that over time the banal word “well done” loses its power.
And the constantly rave epithets heard from mom and dad can make the child’s self-esteem inflated.
Do you want your child to believe in his own strengths and at the same time adequately assess his capabilities? Then tell him completely different phrases.
So, what parental words will make a child happy?
"What do you think about this?"
Are you discussing an important issue with your husband/wife? Be sure to ask your child's opinion.
Yes, perhaps the baby's ideas will not help you solve this or that problem. But the child will be happy, because the parents consider his opinion important.
"Great idea!"
Sometimes it happens that resourceful children still come up with something interesting.
Sometimes ideas turn out to be so unconventional and original that adults are pleasantly surprised.
Did your child suggest a good way out of a situation? Be sure to praise him for it!
Just don't say the word "good job." Instead, say, "That's a great idea!"
In this case, the baby will immediately understand what exactly the praise is connected with.
"There are some positives to this too!"
Children often get upset over the smallest things. Is your child crying? Tell him that you understand how he feels.
But note that there are also positive aspects to the current situation.
Did the kid lose the competition? But he gained experience! Did he get a "D"? But in the end he figured out the topic he once didn't understand.
