Obedient children are a real dream for any parent, as it allows us to improve family relationships without much effort on our part.
However, the child may not meet our expectations.
Why do children grow up disobedient?
You spoiled the child yourself
It is extremely difficult to find a balance between parental love and discipline, as all parents know from experience. However, you do not need to spoil your child constantly if you want to achieve obedience.
So try to set clear rules and don't allow them to be broken.
Lack of authority
We sometimes think that a child should automatically perceive adults as an authority. But this is a misconception. Experts note that children are very observant.
If you "give in" to them, they will always notice it and try to use it for their own purposes.
You are asking incorrectly.
Sometimes parents also need to understand that it is important to ask the child for something at the right time. If the children have just come from classes, then reminding them about cleaning will not be the best option.
Also, a commanding tone does not always work: some children will simply “hide” and will not follow your instructions.
Therefore, look for the optimal approach to children.
