The process of education is complex, important and multifaceted, so it is not surprising that certain methods cause controversial reactions.
However, it is worth understanding this issue before you decide to "experiment".
What 3 methods can be called controversial and ambiguous
Permissiveness
With this approach, parents believe that children should be allowed to do everything so as not to cause psychological trauma with their prohibitions and harsh words.
This method is extremely controversial.
If you do not instill norms of behavior from childhood, and do not show that there are certain boundaries and prohibitions in society, then it will be extremely difficult for grown-up children to adapt to reality.
He who shouts loudest is right
Children often have no control over themselves and also like to use screaming as an effective manipulation. At some point, adults may decide to join in this game.
However, screaming parents show their helplessness, experts note.
The child should always come first
This position is certainly commendable, as it shows that parents truly love their children. However, the child in such a case is at high risk of growing up selfish.
If you get used to the fact that your needs for your family always come first, then it will be difficult to change.
