Psychologists believe that telling children words like “well done,” “smart girl,” and “you’re the best” is wrong – it can provoke fear in them of making a mistake.
Doctors note that it is also not recommended to compare a child with other children, brothers and sisters, as this causes a feeling of guilt.
It's better to simply celebrate specific successes with phrases like "you did it" and "you did it."
In other words, it is better to praise for the actions taken. But you cannot compare with other relatives "the same loser as the father", or "all like the grandfather".
In this case, the child can adopt these personality traits and qualities.
It is worth doing without humiliating abilities that in the future can develop a block on a certain activity of the child.
You can't say things like "you can't trust your child" or "you're irresponsible" about your child. This can lead to destructive behavior in the future.
It is also impossible to say that “we have done so much for you, and you are ungrateful.”
