Not all children are obedient.
Many boys and girls are willful and are not afraid of any consequences.
Threatening such kids with punishment is pointless. But finding a common language with them is worth it.
To do this, you need to pay attention to the techniques listed below.
Avoid the imperative tone
If you want your child to do something or correct some mistake, then don’t order him.
For example, instead of the phrase “Clean your room immediately!” it’s better to say: “For some reason, the toys in the children’s room are scattered around…”
There is a high probability that the child will put things away on his own. And you won't even have to force him to do it.
Refuse to make "big" requests
After some time, after abandoning the commanding tone, you can begin to address the child with polite requests.
And it is advisable not to give the child too many tasks at once. In other words, requests should be divided into parts.
Instead of "Clean your room!" you should say: "Please remove the toys from the floor," and then "Please make your bed."
Set an example for your child
Even the most disobedient child takes an example from his parents.
If mom and dad are neat, clean, calm and polite, then sooner or later the baby will begin to behave similarly.
But if parents constantly argue, are lazy and put things off “for later”, then it is unlikely that they will be able to raise their child normally.
