Every child needs to hear words of love, care, support and gratitude from mom and dad.
Moreover, it is desirable that parents say these phrases as often as possible. Even every day.
And then the child will trust his parents and treat them very well.
If you use the words listed below in your speech, the boy or girl will gain self-confidence and motivation for further development.
"I love you"
A child should feel that he is loved by his mom and dad.
Parents should tell their baby the phrase “I love you” even on those days when he is not behaving very well.
"You can do it"
The baby needs support. If parents do not believe in their own child, then he is unlikely to achieve success in studies, sports and other areas of activity.
"Don't be afraid to make mistakes"
Support is good. But it must be done with caution.
If you put a lot of psychological pressure on a child, he may get the impression that he has no right to make mistakes.
Show your child that there is nothing wrong with failures. The main thing is to move forward and correct the mistakes made.
"Tell me what happened today"
It is desirable that mom and dad constantly take an interest in what happened to the child at school and what joys/difficulties he encountered during the day.
Moreover, the stories and confessions of the child must be listened to attentively. It is not worth scolding him. On the contrary, the sincerity and honesty of the child must be appreciated. And then there will be no routine answers.
"Thank you for your help"
Did your child wash the dishes, help clean the apartment, or fulfill some other request of yours? Then don't forget to thank the baby!
Otherwise, the boy or girl will get the impression that the work was done in vain.
