All parents dream that their child will grow up good, educated and happy. But everything directly depends on parental upbringing.
Some mistakes can play an important role in a child's life.
If the family has warm and open relationships, the child will grow up to be a good person. But if there are often quarrels and criticism in the family, nothing good can be expected. It is for this kind of upbringing that parents will pay for their entire lives.
You can't take too much care of a child and constantly control him. In this case, the parents themselves suppress the child's desire to become independent.
In such families, children live with their parents for a long time because they can't do anything themselves. This is because in childhood, parents always did everything for them and were responsible for all their children's actions.
It is necessary to give the child the right to choose in small things. Let the child choose the color of clothes or the dish in the cafe.
Then the little child will represent his desires himself. And if you give him a serious choice, the child may start to panic, because he will be afraid of making a mistake and will start to get nervous.
Never criticize a child too much for his mistakes. If you do this, the child will be constantly nervous and will do everything to please his parents.
By doing this, you are only imposing your insecurity, weak character, and low self-esteem on your child.
You can't punish a child with your silence and ignoring. You are causing your child psychological trauma. Always talk to your child, don't be silent. A child's bad behavior can be a cry for help, and you will remain silent at that time.
This kind of upbringing of children will accompany them throughout their lives.
Forget about manipulation.
It is precisely such actions that can break the child's psyche. The child begins to feel fear and do everything so that nothing bad happens.
Don't forget that a child should have his own boundaries.
Always try to ask permission to hug, kiss, or come into his room.
If you ignore this advice, when your child grows up, he will communicate with people at a short distance and at the wrong time.
A child must distinguish between friendship, romance, love and work.
We hope these tips will help you raise a good child!
