What 3 gross mistakes do many parents make in communicating with their child: expert opinion

14.02.2023 20:00
Updated: 14.04.2023 01:56

A child will definitely have difficulties in the socialization process if there are problems with communication in the family.

Not all parents know how to properly establish contact with children.

What are the most common communication mistakes?

Lack of communication as such

Many adults are used to only discussing current issues with their child - well-being, education and food preferences. However, not all parents talk about important things.

However, it is extremely important for children to talk to adults about abstract topics. Experts believe that the lack of such a spiritual connection with parents will inevitably lead to consequences in the future.

Friendly relations

Some parents dream of becoming friends with their children, so they structure their communication in a certain way. This is not the way to do it if you want to maintain authority in the eyes of your child.

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Communicating with children "as equals" may seem like a good idea, but the consequences of such a mistake are not the most pleasant. Often, children simply stop listening to their parents, because they are not obliged to obey their "friends".

Dominant criticism

Some children are afraid of communicating with their parents, as they often hear only critical comments and complaints.

The child gets tired of you considering him imperfect. This model of communication becomes the cause of the development of a lot of complexes and does not have the best effect on socialization.

Marina Michalap Author: Marina Michalap Internet resource editor


Content
  1. What are the most common communication mistakes?
  2. Lack of communication as such
  3. Friendly relations
  4. Dominant criticism