Do you want your child to be happy and confident?
Do you dream of your child being able to realize his or her talents and become a successful person?
Know that if you do not communicate correctly with your heir, the above results will not be achieved.
Frequent use of certain dangerous “educational” phrases by parents makes children feel insecure and indecisive.
So, what kind of lines should all moms and dads avoid using?
"How can you not know this?!"
Did the kid ask a question to which the answer is obvious?
Just answer the child without accusing him of being "stupid". And don't make fun of the child!
Understand: children are naive. They don’t have enough life experience.
Take children's "stupid" questions calmly.
If you start expressing your dissatisfaction, the child will become insecure (“I’m stupid…”) and indecisive (“I can’t be asked questions anymore”).
Do everything so that your child is not afraid to gain knowledge.
"You always do everything wrong!"
And this parental phrase makes the child think that he is “somehow different.”
Know this: all children make mistakes. This is normal.
You can't constantly call your son or daughter a "clumsy" person.
"Nobody asked you!"
And you shouldn’t prohibit your child from expressing his own opinion.
The child should be able to calmly reason about this or that issue.
If a child does not have such an opportunity, he becomes timid. It is very difficult for a person with such a character to achieve success.
"But Masha behaves well!"
You can criticize your child. But you need to do it in the right way: correctly, without insults and without “imposing” complexes.
The latter, by the way, can appear in a child who is constantly compared with other children.
"Don't get upset over such nonsense!"
It would seem that there is nothing scary in this phrase: parents are calming the child and telling him that there is no reason to worry.
But in fact, the remark is very dangerous: mom and dad devalue the baby’s emotions.
It's better to say: "We understand your feelings. But it's better not to cry, but to try to solve the problem. You'll definitely succeed!"
