Expert Tatyana Persico told what mistakes women make at the beginning of a relationship
Many women have already given up hope of meeting the right man.
Tatyana Persiko , an expert of the online publication "Belnovosti", a psychologist, psychotherapist, and relationship expert, told us what mistakes women make at the beginning of a relationship.
However, as it turns out during the conversation, they themselves unknowingly make mistakes, sabotaging the beginning of the relationship.
The most common of them are
- Involves a man in her feelings and experiences too quickly
Already on the first date, a woman tries to dedicate a man to all the subtleties of her life. She immediately reveals her feelings and emotions, which can frighten and push away a partner.
At the initial stage, a man is only looking at a woman, he is not ready to fully immerse himself in her life. Rapprochement should occur in stages.
- Too many expectations from a partner
Everyone knows the joke: he just glanced at her, and she is already choosing the names of their future children. A large number of expectations from a partner can lead to disappointment and conflicts.
As a rule, these expectations are not very personalized. A woman has an ideal image of a man, which she tries on everyone. It is important to understand the correspondence between your expectations and the man's personality.
- Constantly comparing your partner to your exes
Even if a woman compares them "to herself", a man will still feel it. He will feel uncomfortable around her. Not understanding the reason for the discomfort, he will want to get rid of it by ending the relationship.
Men are less likely than women to stay in relationships where they are unhappy.
- Obsessiveness and making decisions too quickly
The lack of personal hobbies and the exaggerated importance of relationships for a woman will lead to even greater distance between a man and her.
The more a woman wants to control a man, the more he wants freedom. Besides, he has no chance to prove himself as a man.
- Unclear communication
Many women do not know how to express their desires and needs, which can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts in relationships.
A man must figure out for himself what exactly and how a woman wants. He may agree to play such a game at the initial stage of acquaintance, but soon he will get tired of it.
Which will lead either to constant conflicts or to separation.
