How to do the right thing if you don't know how to do the right thing: just don't break your brain

12.12.2024 20:20

The choice itself is not an easy matter, and when you have to make a decision in an emergency situation, your mind goes crazy.

Such trouble can happen to anyone and in any field of activity.

So when you don't know how to make the right decision, and there's no one to consult with, the first thing you need to do is calm down. Now listen to the advice of experts.

Decision making instructions

1. In general, the very fact of being able to choose is not the worst thing that can happen in life.

Agree that it is much worse for those who have nothing to choose from. Then the only thing left to do is to submit to circumstances.

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2. Deep and calm breathing will help in any difficult situation. The technique allows you to contain the flow of thoughts and emotions that simply overwhelm you.

Therefore, do not rush to make a decision until you have completely calmed down.

3. The next step is a balanced approach to the choice, to the circumstances dictating the need to make a decision, your personal desires and aspirations.

It is very important to understand the difference between desire and necessity, which will help you approach decision-making with all seriousness, without emotions.

4. Then think about how your choice will affect family members, friends, etc.

If someone might be harmed by your choice, then discuss this situation with them first.

5. To make it easier, make a list of the advantages and disadvantages of the upcoming change, and then imagine what the worst case scenario could be.

And after that, listen to your intuition and boldly make a decision. Without hesitation and without doubting its correctness.

Because there is no way back. Otherwise, at the last moment you will give up your choice under the weight of doubts.

Igor Zur Author: Igor Zur Internet resource editor