Being a polite and cultured person is not easy. It is necessary to at least know everything about behavior in society, but also to be able to critically evaluate your actions.
For example, actions that may seem polite to us and even a manifestation of concern for others, will look tactless and rude to others.
Here are a few such situations that can ruin the impression.
Arrive early
If you go to visit someone early under the pretext of providing all possible assistance, think twice.
It is unlikely that the owners will be comfortable asking you to peel potatoes, take out the trash, or vacuum the hallway.
Often such everyday issues are resolved just before the guests arrive.
Useful tips
It is tempting to share personal experiences with colleagues at work. But unsolicited advice will at best be politely listened to.
The right thing to do is to ask yourself whether those around you need your help.
Comparison
When someone shares something that's bothering them with you, it means they just need to speak out.
It is not at all necessary to complain about your failures in response.
This way you put the person in an awkward position: he came for help, but in the end he will have to sympathize with you.
