Think carefully before you say anything to your man. Otherwise, he will turn into a bloodthirsty bear and attack you.
Not with claws, but with shouts and accusations. Avoid such statements if you don't want to quarrel.
"Look at this beauty. She looks like a famous model."
What answer do you hope to get from your chosen one? If he agrees and appreciates the passing girl, you will grab his neck with both hands.
And all because it is unacceptable to look at lovely young ladies in the presence of the one and only. It is forbidden!
But on the other hand, why are you provoking a man with such questions? Do you want him to say something like: “I don’t like her. She’s ugly and unpleasant. I wouldn’t approach her if she were the last woman on Earth!”?
So you can turn these words of a man around: “How can you insult her? This girl is perfect! I didn’t think you were a convinced misogynist.” It’s not easy for poor men.
"Why don't you call me?"
Try to wait for his call, do not interrupt your lover's phone. Otherwise, your call will be the last.
Did you have a fight? Then give the man time to cool down. He will make contact when he regains his peace of mind. Understand that your questions and shouting into the phone will only anger him even more. Don't complicate your situation.
Of course, you are beside yourself and want to reunite with your beloved as soon as possible. But in this situation, you need to be patient and restrained.
Representatives of the stronger sex do not like persistent women who pester them with calls and stick to them like nasty leeches.
They try to get rid of such ladies quickly. You don't want to lose your loved one? Then calm down and wait.
"You are the spitting image of your mother!"
It's great that you noticed the amazing family resemblance. But believe me, this statement will not please a man in the least.
He will decide that you simply consider him a mama's boy, irresponsible and childish.
All men want to be like their fathers. Remember this! It is better to emphasize the features that unite a man with his father.
"How boring and disgusting you are!"
Do you want to hear your partner's reciprocal revelations describing your character and behavior?
So keep your mouth shut! Do you think he is homely, calm, slow and a little sloppy? Yes, these are the inalienable traits of your beloved. It is unlikely that he will become active, nimble, proactive and decisive.
You knew about these features, but did not break up with your chosen one. It turns out that you have come to terms with his shortcomings. Why express your dissatisfaction now?
"What should I wear? This sky-blue sweater or this azure knit dress?"
Obviously, your loved one will be confused. After all, these 2 colors seem the same to him. It is you who are torn between bronze and copper colored shoes.
Your man only sees gold-colored shoes. The same is true for the two blue blouses. Absolutely no difference!
"Couldn't you wear something more respectable?"
Do you want to see a real man or a glamorous fashionista fixated on his appearance? Many representatives of the stronger sex do not pay attention to fashion. This is quite normal.
Things should be clean and comfortable. And men don't care about fashion trends. Comfort is above all!
"I invited my mother to stay with us for a week. Are you happy?"
Uninvited guests cannot be called wise people. At least because they annoy people with their unwanted presence.
If you inform your partner about the imminent arrival of your mother, then you are not the brightest either.
Explain to your mother that her unexpected visits cause discomfort to your life partner. You need to first agree with your husband so that this visit does not become a surprise for him.
He is the head of the family after all! Such issues cannot be resolved without a man.
Perhaps your partner wanted to go out of town with you for the weekend or to an exhibition.
One such notification will put an end to a man's grand plans and kill his motivation. Think about it now, so as not to screw up later.
