Unfortunately, it is very easy to ruin relationships with others.
Sometimes, in order for the other person to be offended, it is enough to utter a couple of careless phrases.
And it’s good if the other person immediately shows his irritation and indignation.
In fact, some people hide their resentment and begin to take revenge on the sly.
Therefore, it is advisable to "figure out" the offended person immediately. And then you need to talk to him openly and discuss the problem.
So, what behavioral characteristics indicate that a person is offended but is trying to hide it?
Avoids meetings
A person who holds a grudge usually has no desire to see the person who offended him.
He refuses to meet under various (usually fictitious) pretexts.
He started to pick on me more often
An offended person may begin to criticize more often the one who offended him.
Moreover, in many cases the criticism will be excessive and unfounded.
Teasing and ridicule
If a person does not find fault, he will still find some shortcomings in the offender in order to ridicule him.
Avoids eye contact
It happens that a person feels uncomfortable just looking at the offender.
Behaves strangely when communicating online
Online communication allows you to hint at your real attitude towards a person without arguing with him in real life.
Does your friend take a long time to respond to your messages or always respond in monosyllables? Think about it: perhaps he is very offended.
Earlier we listed the characteristics of people with high emotional intelligence.
