Much of a person's behavior can be attributed to self-esteem issues. But the main thing is to understand the reason for what is happening.
Anyone has encountered a person who presents himself as a victim.
Let's try to figure out who benefits from this, and at the same time, we'll find out how and why we need to get out of this situation.
Victim Position
Experts say that in such a state, a person not only takes offense at others, but stops taking responsibility for his actions and blames others or circumstances for what is happening.
Who benefits from this?
It has been noted that most often the mask of a victim is tried on by people who do not know how to defend their boundaries.
These people most often manipulate others, use feelings of guilt, and constantly rely on someone’s help and support.
Of course, they like to shift the blame onto others, they believe in the law of the boomerang or higher justice, which will definitely solve all their problems.
How to get out of the "image"
It is simply necessary to get out of the victim image. Moreover, many people cannot do this without the help of a psychologist.
It is believed that the problem may be hidden in depression, anger, fear or shame.
By solving this problem, it will be possible to improve the quality of life.
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