There are several behavioral traits that are typical of insecure people.
It is these habits that “give away” an indecisive person.
As a result, the chances of achieving success are reduced due to mistrust and disrespect of others.
However, if you get rid of such disadvantages, then a person will look dignified, even if he is very worried and afraid of his interlocutors.
How should you not behave if you want to appear decisive and courageous?
Tightness and tension
Don't want to seem insecure? Stop slouching and straining!
Try to relax and choose the most comfortable position.
In this case, those around you will stop treating you with caution.
Quiet and hesitant speech
Speak louder. Pronounce your words more clearly. Even if you are not sure that you are right and do not want to attract attention to yourself.
"Sorry", "excuse me"...
Stop constantly apologizing and making excuses.
You should only ask for forgiveness if you have really done something wrong.
And there is no need to explain your actions to others. This will only make the situation worse.
Inadequate self-criticism
Self-criticism is good. But only if it is done in moderation.
If you torment yourself, then self-criticism ceases to be a “helper” and becomes a person’s “enemy”.
Negative reaction to praise
Know how to accept compliments. Don't deny your successes and positive qualities. Otherwise, you will demonstrate a lack of self-confidence.
And understand that the person who spoke positively about you will be upset if you do not accept his praise.
Earlier we listed phrases that give away haters.
