Not all shy people are happy with their isolation and silence.
Many of them dream of becoming more active and sociable.
After all, such behavior contributes to the appearance of friends, and also increases the chances of achieving success in life.
If you are an introvert who feels uncomfortable in large groups, don't think that this is forever.
The situation can be corrected. To do this, you need to follow the recommendations below.
Don't analyze what is said too deeply
Many people are silent because they constantly think: “What if I say something wrong?”
Don't be afraid to make mistakes or stumble. Speak boldly. Stop carefully analyzing every line you say.
Even if you make a slip of the tongue, you will still be understood. And if necessary, they will ask again.
Learn to start a conversation first
Don't wait to be approached directly.
Want to join the conversation? Then start the conversation yourself!
Finding the positives in a conversation
Even if the conversation didn't go well, still try to find positive aspects in it.
This skill helps to overcome fear and shyness.
React calmly to criticism
It is possible that one of your interlocutors will start criticizing you. Take this phenomenon calmly.
Accept that you, like any other person, have shortcomings.
Don't be afraid to meet people
Yes, it is difficult for a shy person. But if you overcome yourself, it will become clear that finding new friends is a rather pleasant process.
Earlier we talked about how to stop comparing yourself to other people.
