Men who, of all means of existence, choose the one that involves living at the expense of a woman are not uncommon.
And for modern scammers, this is one of the proven ways to get rich.
So should women give money to a man if there are only swindlers around?
How to make the right decision and not let down a loved one who may really find themselves in a difficult situation? Experts gave advice for this case.
When you shouldn't give money to a man
Firstly, if you don’t want it yourself.
A man can play on pity by accidentally letting slip about difficulties, or take advantage of a moment of weakness when a woman becomes emotional after a bouquet of flowers and a romantic evening.
If you are not inclined to help a man financially, then stand your ground and cite financial difficulties.
Secondly, be aware of cases of fraud.
They write love letters, promise mountains of gold and love until death, but they are always hindered by one circumstance, which they cannot resolve without your financial participation.
This is a standard scenario, after reading which you can confidently say “no”.
Thirdly, even if he is not a fraudster, he can simply disappear.
If this is just the beginning of your acquaintance, that is, you do not yet have such a strong connection and you are not sure that your man will not disappear in the short term.
Fourthly, women's financial assistance can touch a man to the quick.
In such cases, he himself will not ask for money, and will not take it from a woman if she offers it.
Fifthly, for a man to ask a woman for money is a trifle.
Most likely, you are dealing with an unprincipled creature. This means that the requests will be heard again and again. In this case, it would be better to get a cat.
