In our lives, we often encounter people who show care and attention, creating the appearance of sincere friendship or romantic relationships.
However, sometimes behind this facade there is a completely different attitude.
Recognizing such a person can be difficult. You can help with this by looking for warning signs that indicate that it is time to stop the bullying that hides under the guise of great love.
Double standards
A manipulative man may come up with rules that only his partner must follow – they do not apply to him. Remember that a healthy relationship is not a dictatorship, but a partnership.
Constant criticism
If your partner constantly finds flaws in your appearance, character, work, this certainly does not indicate great love, even if it is presented in such a sauce.
Self-interest
Manipulative partners may do something nice for their significant other, but they certainly expect the same in return. If you agreed that one of you cooks dinner and the other irons clothes, then everything is fine, but if one of you came up with something and the other obeys, this is an alarm bell.
Lack of choice
Manipulators believe that they are the only ones who have the right to choose a place to relax and a dish for dinner. This behavior is the biggest red flag.
Together forever
It's good when your loved one wants to spend all their time with you. But if they try their best to keep you from meeting other people - friends, colleagues, relatives - then you should be wary.
