Everyday life, routine and unexpected difficulties that arise on the path of everyone who strives for family happiness leave no chance for a romantic relationship.
This is what will happen if you don't start fighting for your happiness. And it doesn't take much to do that.
Here are a few simple steps to help bring back the romance into a relationship that has been stifled by everyday life.
First, start with conversation.
No need to reproach and philosophize. Tell them directly what you lack and what you expect from your partner.
It's quite possible that he feels the same way. He just doesn't want to upset you with his guesses.
Second: straight into battle?
No, if you accelerate with all your might and try to jump over the wall of misunderstanding, then in case of failure you may not have enough strength for a second attempt.
Therefore, you need to start small. These can be gestures, short hugs and other even minor signs of attention.
Gradually increase the level to constant conversations, and then start flirting in chats or leaving unexpected notes to each other.
Third: memories
Not in the sense of sitting on a bench and remembering how good it was before. You'll have time for that in old age.
Visit the place of the first meeting, read the first correspondence in the messenger, if it has been saved, look at the photos, etc.
Fourth: attention
In the midst of these wonderful moments, do not forget to help and pay attention to your partner's concerns.
It is from this point that difficulties in relationships begin in all couples.
Fifth: stay yourself
Don't rush to give all your energy to your chosen one. Be sure to leave some energy for self-care.
It is important to like yourself and live an interesting life for yourself, and then your partner will definitely find a reason to remind you of themselves and please you.
