It turns out that the phrase “You’re not like everyone else” is no longer a compliment at all, but a real red flag.
This expression can be seen not so much as a compliment to someone in particular, but as an insult to others.
Moreover, there is an attempt at manipulation in this statement – your chosen one may think that you are using the highest degree of appreciation in order to get her faster.
Here are reasons why you should replace this phrase with others that do not compare, devalue or humiliate others.
If you want to draw attention to the uniqueness of your significant other, be more specific and speak through the prism of your feelings.
Instead of saying the derogatory, "You're so smart, unlike all the other girls," use the following replacement.
"This is the first time I've met a person who knows so much about the law of radioactive decay. You're just super!" - your companion will definitely be delighted with such a compliment.
You can also use more generic phrases such as: “You are the best (special) person to me” or “Your knowledge and skills are impressive.”
