Wise people know a simple truth: before you say something, you need to think carefully.
Unfortunately, not all beautiful ladies know how to watch their words.
These individuals offend others with merciless truth, stupid remarks, harsh answers, and so on.
Remember once and for all: wise women do not say these phrases! Meet them.
"Don't shed bitter tears because of this scoundrel!"
This phrase is not a good one. Of course, you want to comfort a tearful friend, sister or acquaintance. But you should not speak so rudely about the person she loved.
Yes, he is not worth a single tear. But the girl is already hurt. Don't add fuel to the fire, otherwise you will upset your girlfriend even more.
Believe me, the last thing she wants to hear now is what a scumbag, scoundrel and deceiver her former lover was. After all, she fell in love with this man and dreamed of creating a happy family with him. He was the best for her until the illusory happiness “collapsed”.
"Wow, you're already 35!"
An ambiguous statement. Don't you think so? Do you think the person is too successful, goal-oriented and competent for such a young age? Or are you surprised that at this age you can look 10 years older?
Be honest with your interlocutor. Emphasize his positive sides and achievements. In extreme cases, point out his exhausted and faded appearance. Perhaps the person needs to take a break and restore his health.
"This is Petya's (Vasya's, Fedya's, Kolya's) job. He'll do a great job."
Don't shift your responsibilities and tasks to others. It's rude! Firstly, by doing so you confirm your own unprofessionalism, and secondly, this gesture expresses your disrespect for the person.
Wise women do not give in to difficulties, they overcome them.
"I achieved success alone, I went through a thorny path!"
Wow, you have no equal! Has no one ever helped you? Are you an overly proud lady? Or a common liar?
Surely family, friends, relatives or colleagues have made a significant contribution to your development. Without all these people, you would not have been able to go half the way. And you would not have seen success as your ears.
"I find this idea ridiculous."
But whose idea are you talking about? Your own? Then it's doubly unforgivable!
Don't make yourself look stupid in the eyes of others. If you don't believe in the success of your ideas, how will others believe in you?
Are you responding this way to a friend, acquaintance or colleague's idea? Know: you are acting like a real rude woman. These words are unworthy of a smart lady! You don't like someone's thoughts? Direct your interlocutor in the right direction gently, give him a transparent hint. Excessive honesty is of no use in this matter.
"Come over and visit, let's chat, discuss everything and everyone"
A wise woman doesn't need to be taught the basics of time management. She already manages her time wisely.
She has no time to sit and chat meaninglessly. She is concerned with serious matters. Of all the activities, the last thing she would choose is to talk about nothing.
"I'll do it only because we're friends."
This is not a voluntary step, but rather a forced service.
You don't want to help someone? But you have obligations to them? Do what they ask you to do without complaints. Next time, just refuse with a convincing excuse.
"You don't listen to me, that's why you fail again and again!"
It is not in your power to direct the actions of an adult, established person. Rid yourself of illusory responsibility.
Want to become wise? Don't warn your loved ones or give them unsolicited advice.
Do those dear to you often stumble? Do they get into trouble? Leave everything as it is, keep quiet. Let them continue to step on the rake. Experience will teach them better than your reproaches and accusations.
"Meeting you ruined my destiny!"
Many representatives of the weaker sex cannot live without this phrase. Alas, these individuals cannot be called wise.
Every smart woman knows that the future must be built with her own hands. Thoughts and actions influence the course of events. One stupid prank or careless remark can cross everything out.
