You must admit, it is one thing to show concern for the well-being of a loved one, and quite another to constantly monitor his mood in an attempt to make sure that everything is okay with him.
It is at least tedious to constantly feel that your partner is always in control of your emotions.
This behavior indicates that your partner is uncomfortable with your sadness, anger, guilt, or disappointment.
The discomfort he feels from this eventually develops into an unspoken demand to stop experiencing the “negative” feelings that make him anxious.
There are other types of behavior that don't work in the long run.
For example, a partner’s behavior in which he tries to avoid conflicts should be an alarming signal for you.
Of course, quarrels and other disagreements cannot be called a pleasant part of a relationship, but they are simply necessary. Otherwise, misunderstandings and irritation will accumulate and thus poison your relationship.
Likewise, you should be wary if your partner constantly agrees with you.
While at first it may seem to you that you are always heard and seen, that your opinion matters, but later pleasant emotions are replaced by irritation: few people like it when their significant other always agrees with everything and never says what they want.
As a partner, we would all like to see a person who has his own point of view, and not someone who is always ready to adapt to others.
Probably, every person would like to have a partner who will always understand him.
