Conflicts arise in every family. Women are often to blame for them. But how to quarrel with your husband so that serious conflicts do not arise?
Of course, the best solution is to try to prevent an upcoming quarrel. For example, when you want to flare up and yell at your spouse, you need to stop.
It is not recommended to speak in raised tones. Although, storing up resentment is not the best solution.
If your husband forgot about your wedding anniversary or didn't put his plate in the sink, you should remind him and the problem will go away on its own.
The conflict can be resolved through conversation.
True, it is worth conducting it consciously in the right place and at the right time.
For example, trying to explain to your husband that you are right when he is drunk is completely pointless.
There is no need to rush at your husband with reproaches in a conversation. Smart women conduct a conversation carefully and in a calm atmosphere.
Then the spouse perceives the information more easily and simply. He does not try to justify himself, to defend himself, but is himself set for immediate reconciliation.
You should never involve strangers in personal quarrels.
Even if it is a close relative, during a conflict he will definitely find out all the subtleties of the relationship, and gossip may arise in the future.
Besides, personal conflicts usually concern only a man and a woman. A third person is unlikely to solve the pressing problems.
