Sometimes grumpy and selfish wives forget to watch their long tongues. This mistake threatens to break up the family.
What phrases do women say that hurt the stronger sex?
"I would rather receive money as a gift than this!"
You shouldn't pout and look at the gift with displeasure. This gesture will offend your beloved man. Remember the saying: "Don't look a gift horse in the mouth."
The man tried, he chose a gift for you with love. He wanted to please you.
Just think how upset he will be by your negative reaction. Who knew that he would choose an inappropriate gift.
Next time, be more cunning: direct your chosen one in the right direction. Hint that you dream of a new ring or an imported cosmetics set. Skillful and calm women always achieve their goals without war.
"I can't stand it when empty bottles and dirty clothes are lying around the house!"
You don't have to fight your hatred. You have the right to feel it. But men need guidance and praise, not female criticism.
Did you pick up your husband's sweaty pants from the floor and get really angry? Turn to your partner and say, "Honey, I love it when your dirty clothes lie peacefully in the basket. All I have to do is take them and put them in the washing machine."
Have you come across crumbs or shells again? Whisper to your loved one: “Honey, I bought you a new container (plate) for chips and seeds. Now you can eat in larger portions. And please put the shells in a bag.”
"I will never forget how much you hurt me 10 years ago"
What could be worse than remembering old grievances? Yes, your loved one once behaved badly towards you.
But this is no reason to reproach him for the rest of your life! Surely you have also done something wrong to your man. He is not attacking you!
Are you holding a grudge against your husband? Or have you found a way to manipulate him? Either way, you will only make your situation worse. One day he will explode and leave you. Then you will regret your vindictiveness and lack of restraint.
“You can’t even hammer a rusty nail into a wall!”
Perhaps your spouse's domestic skills leave much to be desired. But he works, he tries for the good of the family. Why do you make him look like a complete bungler?
No one forced you to marry him. You should have set your priorities straight from the start.
Do not humiliate your chosen one. If you have economical and skilled male relatives (father, brother), ask them to teach your spouse to repair sockets and furniture, use an electric drill, hammer, pliers, hacksaw.
You will soon realize that your man is not so hopeless. The main thing is not to scold him.
"You remind me of a Neanderthal. No manners or upbringing!"
There are not enough gentlemen and English lords for everyone. Your life partner may not compliment you, but he is honest and open. He does not pretend, is not hypocritical, does not fawn. Today, these traits are worth a lot.
Not everyone is given the ability to be polite, gentle and helpful. Sometimes help around the house and support are worth much more than candy and a bouquet of flowers.
Don't forget: all men express their love differently. Perhaps your husband doesn't care about fancy habits. He dreams of building a greenhouse or buying a new wardrobe and bed for the bedroom.
If he doesn't spare anything for you, then let him continue to be an uncouth man in sweatpants. Stop insulting him and calling him a caveman.
“Be glad that a woman like me looked at you!”
Do you really think that thanks to you he wasn't alone? That your chance meeting made him the happiest man? You're wrong.
Even if you get divorced, another will quickly be found. You will be surprised, but his next marriage may be more successful.
Don't get cocky and think that your husband is a complete nobody. Women are looking at him, don't doubt it!
There is a lover for every person. You can also find a new husband, it is not a problem. But will you be happy – that is a big question.
