Do you feel like your partner is about to propose?
At the same time, along with the feeling of imminent family happiness, is there some anxiety?
"What if I'm a bad wife? What if it doesn't work out? What if we break up and spend years dividing up property?"
There is nothing terrible in such experiences! Such thoughts indicate the following: you are a psychologically mature person who does not look at the world through rose-colored glasses and is ready for the upcoming difficulties.
The main thing is that doubts are not excessive. Otherwise, indecision will appear, which will simply deprive a woman of the opportunity to create a happy family.
Check the signs below. If you have them, you can safely conclude that you are ready to get married.
I started saying “we” more often instead of “I”
If a woman is used to saying “we”, meaning herself and her partner (“We decided…”, “We moved”, “We bought…”, “It’s important for us…”), then this is a very good sign.
Apparently, the fair sex has long considered herself and her companion to be one. It's time to get married!
Has been living with his partner for a long time
Living together as lovers is another sign of readiness to start family life.
You don't face any particular difficulties living with your man under the same roof? On the contrary, has it become easier and simpler? Then feel free to say yes to the proposal of marriage!
Ready to take responsibility
The absence of infantilism and the ability to take responsibility in a relationship indicate a girl’s readiness to become a wife.
Completely trusts the partner
Without trust in your other half, creating a happy family becomes almost impossible.
Correctly criticizes the partner
It is worth criticizing your beloved man periodically on the merits. Otherwise, he may relax and start considering his other half as a "servant" and "subordinate".
At the same time, you shouldn't "nag" your partner. Otherwise, he will either withdraw into himself, becoming an indecisive and weak-willed person, or simply leave the woman.
A sign of a woman’s readiness to enter into marriage is her ability to criticize her partner using “I” statements rather than “you” statements.
In other words, instead of “You repaired the item poorly,” it’s better to say: “I don’t like how the item was repaired.”
Earlier we talked about whether jealousy can be normal .
