The first date can be called a trial run. It is no secret that you can communicate online for a long time, but in fact it turns out that the type is not yours.
The only thing that can be confusing is the psychologist's advice that you shouldn't rush to conclusions. Indeed, anything can happen: maybe the man is having a bad day, or maybe you're just not in the mood?
In fact, there are signs that will allow you to easily answer the question: is it worth agreeing to a second date?
You can safely answer no if it turned out something like this.
1. Your boyfriend is not very patient, argued and got irritated over all sorts of nonsense, etc. In this case, it is better not to think about a second date or continuing communication.
Tyrant - you can be sure of that.
2. If suddenly a man starts talking or complaining about bad relationships with relatives, ex-partner, children (if he has them and he admitted it), it doesn’t matter with whom.
There is room for a psychologist to work here – stay away from your new acquaintance.
3. If a man talks all the time, it’s not so bad. It’s bad if he only talks about himself.
Such egocentric creatures are often mama's boys and constantly whine if they are not loved. Better to get a hamster.
4. If a man is rushing things – things can get very interesting here. A man can not only be in a hurry to be alone in an intimate setting, but also ask to meet his parents, or start making plans for the future.
All this is, to put it mildly, strange, because a normal person, before moving on to a serious relationship, wants to get to know his partner, and then decides on something.
5. And be sure to watch your speech. Ambiguous compliments should be a warning sign first and foremost.
It's obvious that the man simply doesn't think about what he's saying - why do you need one like that? Or he started making fun of you from the very first minute.
Earlier we talked about how to understand that a man is not right for you .
