There are some things that are traditionally considered negative in a love relationship.
In fact, they can have a positive impact on the relationship between a man and a woman.
Do you think this statement is absurd? You don't believe in the miraculousness of these things? Here are 7 proofs.
Scandals and conflicts
Any confrontation helps partners to express their pain points and sort out their most pressing issues.
Do you argue very loudly? So loudly that even your neighbors suffer? Do you break plates during a quarrel? It is not a problem. It has long been proven that scandals are useful. But only in reasonable doses!
Let us give two arguments in favor of what has been said.
You will get an emotional release and calm down for at least 48 hours. This is much better than keeping the negativity inside.
You will both learn a valuable lesson from the fight. It doesn't matter that you were yelling and angry at each other. What matters is the end result of the fight.
You will make peace and remember how wonderful family life and love are.
Sleeping apart
Older generations are sure of the following: spouses need to sleep together. One bed, one blanket, strong hugs and no objections!
Unfortunately, with the passing of passionate nights of love comes terrible discomfort. Husband and wife begin to feel uncomfortable. One snores, the other pulls the blanket over himself.
Sleeping in separate rooms is quite normal these days. No one will judge you for this action, as in the old days. Such rest is beneficial for both: no one tosses and turns and no one pushes.
Don't be afraid to tell your partner that you want to get some rest from them at night. The main thing is that you both have enough sleeping places and free rooms.
Don't worry, it won't harm your marriage. You'll find peace and be able to get a good night's sleep.
Manifestation of selfishness
You've completely dissolved into your family, haven't you? Aren't you afraid of losing your sense of self?
We all need to be selfish from time to time to enjoy life. Remember how many months ago you went to a cafe or to the theater? Or took a solo walk? Or dropped in for tea with a positive and talkative friend?
Having trouble answering? Then it's time to refresh your memory of these events by simply repeating them.
Be a free bird at least sometimes, otherwise you will harm your physical and mental health.
Don't worry, the world won't turn upside down during your reboot: your husband will be able to take care of himself and look after your offspring, and your elderly parents will be able to leisurely stroll for groceries and medicine.
Separate leisure
Don't like mixed martial arts? Then don't watch fights every weekend with your dear husband.
Don't torment him by watching your favorite melodramas either. Everything can be easily solved if you have a second TV or at least a laptop at home.
You both may have different hobbies and preferences. Relax as you please.
The main thing is to make an agreement with your loved one. Let your husband eat chips on the couch, watching action movies, while you paint your friend's nails in the kitchen and drink coffee.
Next time, he and his friends will occupy the kitchen, and you will move to the living room to enjoy your favorite TV series in a horizontal position. Thanks to this arrangement, you will not disturb each other and get bored.
Light flirtation
You can flirt, but you can't cheat. Be careful not to get it wrong! Let your other half know that you are pretty good-looking and that the opposite sex is still interested in you.
Believe me, your loved one will remember what a treasure he got and will not want to give you to anyone. Jealousy will awaken in him.
And your man has the right to flirt innocently. For example, with a pretty cashier or an old acquaintance.
However, not every wife will calmly accept such pleasantries. Sometimes the consequences are terrible.
But you are not mentally unstable enough to pull the hair of a young girl who received a compliment from your husband.
Return home with your husband, tell him everything to his face and pout. He will probably be glad that you care about him and will explain everything calmly.
In any case, you need to act carefully and be guided by the character of your life partner.
Lack of money
Husband and wife who are in dire financial need often unite. But this is not always the case, unfortunately.
Some spouses, on the contrary, begin to fight and quarrel cruelly because of lack of money. The nature of the partners and their attitude to money are of great importance.
One thing is clear: poverty is no obstacle to true feelings. When you have your hands and feet in place, you can always earn money and get back on your feet. But if there is self-interest and calculation in the marriage, then you should not count on a positive outcome.
Crisis periods
All crises in relationships raise partners to a higher level and also contribute to their development.
Couples who have managed to overcome another crisis period consciously move to the next level and increase their own wisdom.
Previously, 5 male mistakes were named, due to which a family can fall apart.
